I loved her against reason,against promise, against peace,against hope, against happiness,against all discouragementthat could be.
Yep
The differentiator
The biggest factor for success in any pursuit:
Consistency
It can be the smallest, seemingly insignificant habit
But if you do it everyday, those results compound
Very few people have that level of consistency and discipline
It will set you apart
The man makes a good point
The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.
~ Plato
Working on it...
There are three things you have to know:
- What you desire
- What you believe
- What you have to do
~ St. Thomas Aquinas
Meditating on this
The more you know, the more you realize how much you don’t know.
The less you know, the more you think you know everything.
Knowledge is humbling. Ignorance is arrogant.
Not a bit surprising...
If I said what I know about both candidates, they’d have to cancel the (2016) election.
Aspirational!
The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically.
Intelligence plus character - that is goal of true education.
Reflective Listening - try these phrases
What I'm hearing you say is...
Did I hear you well?
Is there more?
Every day...
If you quit now,
You will end up back where you first began...
And when you first began,
you were desperate to be
where you are right now!
Keep going!
~ @raise.the.vibe.tribe
Seems reasonable...
If you want to understand how to fix a problem in the world, you have to ask yourself who is profiting from the problem...
... not who is suffering from it.
~ internet wisdom
Political explanation from Ann Landers (probably from the '60s)
- Socialism: You have two cows. Give one cow to your neighbor.
- Communism: You have two cows. Give both cows to the government, and they may give you some milk.
- Fascism: You have two cows. You give all of the milk to the government, and the government sells it.
- Nazism: You have two cows. The government shoots you and takes both cows.
- Anarchism: You have two cows. Keep both cows, shoot the government agent and steal another cow.
- Capitalism: You have two cows. Sell one, buy a bull.
This has been my experience.
Most people aren't looking for your opinion and solution, they are looking for validation and sympathy.
Keep hope alive!
I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart.
OG words to ponder
At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: "I have to go to work - as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I'm going to do what I was born for - the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm?"
- But it's nicer here...
So you were born to feel "nice"? Instead of doing things and experiencing them? Don't you see the plants, the birds, the ants and spiders and bees going about their individual tasks, putting the world in order, as best they can? And you're not willing to do your job as a human being? Why aren't you running to do what your nature demands?”
Fulfillment - wouldn't that be nice?
You'll never be truly satisfied with where you are It's life - there's always another level
That's why putting off your happiness until you reach "X" goal is dangerous
It's about falling in love with the process, growth and pursuit of your goalsThat's where fulfillment lies
Good advice...
- Seen primary sources
- Spoken to 3 domain experts
One of JFK's favorite sayings - still applies to many of today's situations
Do not remove a fence until you know why it was put up in the first place.
leaving the other problems unresolved...
Money can only solve money problems.
~ found on the internet
And that was many years ago!
You go talk to kindergartners or first grade kids, you find a class full of science enthusiasts. They ask deep questions. They ask, "What is a dream, why do we have toes, why is the moon round, what it the birthday of the world. why is grass green?" These are profound, important questions! They just bubble right out of them.Then you go talk to 12th graders and there's none of that. They've become incurious. Something terrible has happened between kindergarten and 12th grade.
Yikes!
I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.
Indeed...
A fit body, a calm mind, a house full of love. These things cannot be bought — they must be earned.
New concepts I will apply
Amy Poehler’s Nine Rules for Improv (and life)
- Keep saying yes
- Be a good listener
- Find your team
- Find the game (what is the purpose of this situation)
- Take up space (believing you belong here, advocate for yourself, don’t shrink, be fearless). But ask yourself, “does the scene need you?”
- Can’t be halfway in (life is a parade, you can watch from the sidelines, waiting to join the perfect float, or you can jump in and rock out!).
- Don’t bail on your partners. Everyone remembers, when things are at their worst, the people who scram. Conversely, you are closest to the people that go down with the ship with you.
- Don’t worry about being cool.
- Playing with status. Being aware of status (Who you are in relation to other people) in social or professional situations can be entertaining or elucidating.
Let’s dance!
Somewhere, there is the ideal soil for growing mangoes. Or the best possible wave for surfing. Or the most romantic sunset for a proposal.
But it’s not right here and it’s not right now.
Our success has a lot to do with how we dance with conditions that aren’t quite perfect.
~ Seth Godwin
They don't write 'em like they used to...
Man, once surrendering his reason, has no remaining guard against absurdities the most monstrous, and like a ship without rudder, is the sport of every wind.
With such persons, gullibility, which they call faith, takes the helm from the hand of reason and the mind becomes a wreck.
Seems reasonable enough
Be stronger than those that hate you, so that they cannot destroy you. Then forgive them.
~ Elon Musk
Indeed
Science is like sex. Sometimes something useful comes out of it, but that's not why we are doing it.
Terrifying!
Compulsive liars shouldn't frighten you. They can harm no one, if no one listens to them.
Compulsive believers, on the other hand - they should terrify you.
Believers are the liars' enablers.
~ Nick Cohen
Been there, done that...
She was the super destructive cruel beautiful dark-haired woman that I eternally write about.
Yep
The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it.
Yep
There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river.
We need to go upstream and find out why they’re falling in.
~ Bishop Desmond Tutu.
Everybody needs a good plan!
A Good plan, violently executed now, is better than a perfect plan next week.
Fear
We often fear what we don't understand.
Our best defense is knowledge.
~ Tuvok, on Star Trek: Discovery
Self awareness
Love yourself. But also analyze and be critical of how you think, act & behave.
Self love without self awareness is useless.
Be accountable.
How to improve your standing...
Most people will tell you it starts in the mind, but I'm a big believer that everything starts with the body,
My first piece of advice to anyone trying to improve their standing: Wake up early and work out.
There's no such thing as a loser who wakes up at 5am and works out.
Education
The ultimate purpose of education is to change an empty mind into an open one.If you wanna be a good teacher, teach open-mindedness, teach enthusiasm, inquisitiveness, heuristics, and values.
I'm trying!
Be humble. Be teachable.The universe is bigger than your view of the universe. There's always room for a new idea.
It's agonizing!
There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.