'Be a grown-ass man' is my mantra of the week.

Do what our son did. Be a grown-ass man. Admit to your mistakes. Learn from them so this doesn’t happen ever, ever again. 
~ Darin Hoover, father of fallen Marine Staff Sargent Darin Taylor Hoover,who was one of 13 U.S. troops killed in the suicide bombing of the August 2021 Kabul airport evacuation,to Secretary of State Antony Blinken, Defense Secretary Lloyd Austin, Joint Chiefs of Staff Chairman General Mark Milley, and President Joe Biden.